Saturday, September 06, 2008

The hate word

Today’s Reading: John 15:18-19 (NIV)

18 [Jesus said,] “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.

Good morning!

I remember the first time someone told me they hated me. Someone in the lunch room didn’t want me to sit next to them. The words rolled off her tongue effortlessly and everyone laughed; thinking it was entertaining to watch me cry. I’m not exactly sure what I did to deserve the hate word – I imagine it had something to do with how I was dressed. You see, many of the girls I went to school with wore blue jeans, crop tops and floppy sandals. My mother insisted I wear dresses and tennis shoes. I didn’t look like them or fit in. The children liked to play hard and they were rough on the playground. I could run just as fast as they could, but hard and rough were not a part of how I was built. We choose to use the hate word when we really don’t want to know or understand someone who may look or act differently from us. Do you think it is easier to hate someone rather than try to find some common ground?

People have practiced hatred since the beginning of time. The color of your skin could launch a world war. Can you change the color of your skin to suit the personal preferences of others? Many have tried to do this through cosmetic surgeries, chemical peels, and tanning beds. Does the color of your skin change who you are on the inside? Would you be more acceptable in the culture where you live if you were fairer, darker, or maybe purple? Purple people eaters were popular where I grew up. Why do people hate each other based upon the color of someone’s skin?

Have you ever wondered what it might be like today if Jesus had chosen to hate the world? We are certainly different from Him. Christ was fully human yet fully divine. It is no wonder He was scorned, ridiculed and judged. He was unique and everyone knew it. Some hated Him, others were jealous, and many wanted Him dead and gone. There is not a human heart alive in the world today who does not struggle with sin. Maybe you have a bad attitude or an addiction to overcome. You may suffer from jealousy or pride. Are you lazy, moody, or hormonal? Isn’t that the catch phrase we sometimes use to excuse our behavior when we have a bad day? What if Jesus had chosen to hate us because we were sinners? What if He said, “Forget it, Dad. I’m not laying down my life for this worthless bunch. They will never change; this is one big, hopeless situation!”

Without the perfect sacrifice of Jesus Christ, humanity would be forever lost and separated from a perfect and holy Father. Even when the world chose to hate Him, Jesus Christ willingly loved. His love melted hearts, bridged the gap to heaven, and brought sinful man into fellowship with a sinless Father. Hate is conquered once and for all on the cross of Calvary.

We are called to turn from the popular world view and choose to love like Jesus. Will you take the harder road and choose to love today?

Grace and peace,

Deb Spaulding

Faith UMC - St. Charles, MO

www.songofdeborah.com

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Friday, September 05, 2008

An appointment to keep

Today’s Reading: John 15:16-17 (NIV)

16 [Jesus said,] “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit fruit that will last. Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. 17 This is my command: Love each other.

Good morning!

My fall appointment calendar is beginning to fill up quickly. Much of what I do revolves around the things that are most important to me: ministry, family, work and school. The calendar gives me an opportunity to prioritize my day, and yet, some of what goes in my date book is not necessary of my own choosing. There are some things that I do simply because I’m called to do them.

At work, I devote the last week of each month to coding, recording and submitting invoices to accounting for payment. Of the projects I complete each month, this is my least favorite task. Every month, it pops up on my Outlook calendar, and I stop what I’m doing and focus on this important work. It is no secret that I am mathematically challenged; I work with even greater determination to ensure that the data I record accurately reflects the amounts due as presented by various vendors for payment. I review incoming bills, verify account information, and look for duplication errors. I double check balances due, verifying that timely payments are made. Keeping an accurate accounting is of great value to my employer. Even though I may struggle through this task each month, I willingly submit myself to the project, knowing if I give my very best to it, the Lord will take the service I offer and He will bless and multiply it. I am striving toward perfection, and I know that the Father has called me to a higher standard. I look forward to the day when I am fully perfected in His love.

You and I have an important appointment to keep. This may not be the task we would willingly choose to undertake. Jesus Christ has commanded that we love each other. He did not make any exceptions to the rule, nor did He give us personal privilege or an opt-out arrangement. In fact, Jesus said that we did not choose Him; rather, the Father chose each of us to bear fruit that will have eternal consequences. We are expected to step up to love. Jesus wants us to bear real fruit by really loving each other. This one requirement will take everything you’ve got, and then some. For me, I cannot fully love without seeking heavenly help from the Lord.

What task has the Father recorded on the pages of your life’s calendar? What requirement has He called you to fulfill that you continually shift to the bottom of your to-do list? Father, help us recognize the utter necessity and the urgency of Your commandment. Help us not to do this one thing with a half-ditched effort. Teach us how to love each other the way you love us. In Jesus’ name, I pray, Amen.

Grace and peace,

Deb Spaulding

Faith UMC - St. Charles, MO

www.songofdeborah.com

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Thursday, September 04, 2008

Real friendship

Today’s Reading: John 15:15 (NIV)

15 [Jesus said,] “I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.

Good morning!

I changed schools seven times in twelve years without moving once! In the mid-sixties, the population in Florissant grew exponentially. Young families had moved to North County, and there were children everywhere! New schools were being built to accommodate the rapid growth spurt. This caused the district boundary lines to constantly change. After attending a private kindergarten offered at my church, I attended six different public schools from first grade through my senior year of high school. And I managed this without moving once from our family's home. What a rich experience this was!

I made a lot of friends at every school I attended, some of whom have remained in contact with me through the years. Many of the children I hung out with on the playground and in the lunchroom I have not seen or heard from since then. My mother used to tell me that I should be a friend to all but I should choose my best friends carefully. Have you ever been disappointed by a friend? Have you ever failed to be the friend you should have been to someone else?

Jesus amazed His disciples by demonstrating friendship like no other. He did not treat His disciples as mere servants. His entourage willingly served the Lord during their three year traveling ministry tour. Yet, Jesus chose to share everything the Father had told Him with His friends. He held nothing back and kept no secrets; conveying the truth of God to all who would listen and receive Him into their hearts. He called them friends, even knowing that one of them would betray their friendship, selling his soul for thirty lousy pieces of silver. Jesus placed His life on the line for all people, even the greedy ones. He calls us friends. What friend would give up His own life just to save yours?

Are you a friend to Jesus? He died to set you free from the sins that separate you from a perfect and loving Father. He came to be your friend; a constant companion for life and the life to come. Jesus told us everything the Father told Him. We are not merely His servants: we are His friends and He is counting on each of us to share the Father's love with the world. How will you choose to share Christlike friendship in your community? Will you take a risk and love others the way Jesus loves you?

Grace and peace,

Deb Spaulding

Faith UMC - St. Charles, MO

www.songofdeborah.com

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Wednesday, September 03, 2008

First day jitters

Today’s Reading: John 15:14 (NIV)

14 [Jesus said,] “You are my friends if you do what I command.

Good morning!

What does it mean to be a friend?

When I was in elementary school, the first day of class always began the day after Labor Day. I spent many Labor Day nights lying awake in my bed with a belly ache, suffering from first day jitters. Would I like my new teacher and would my teacher like me? How much homework will I have to contend with on my very first day back to school? Will I find my homeroom before the tardy bell goes off? Will there be any familiar faces in class? Will I be able to make some new friends? What if these people don’t like me?

We all share an essential human need to be in relationship with each another. We look to our friends to provide support, encouragement, and their honest opinion. We want to know that even in the midst of our unique differences there is a commonality that draws us to one another. Having a good friend to share life with is a precious gift. Friendship is a relational, two-way street. In order to have a good friend, we must willingly be good friends in return.

Jesus knew that being a friend is more than mere lip service. It is one thing to tell someone you care; it is another thing to be present when they need you most. Friendship requires commitment, especially when disagreements erupt. Jesus knew that His true friends would choose to listen and obey the instruction of the Father. He knew His real friends would root themselves in the foundation and stand firm together throughout the storm.

Every now and then, we fail to be the friends we should be. Fortunately, Jesus taught us how to forgive and love each other, in spite of ourselves. We can learn a lot about what real friendship is by looking at the one raised the bar on friendship. Jesus Christ is the best friend you will ever have. He will not leave you nor forsake you; Christ will stand with you through every circumstance in your life. Jesus loves you more than you will ever be able to love Him back. Give Jesus Christ your whole heart today. He will ease your first-day jitters and that belly ache twisting in the pit of your stomach. With Christ by your side, you will know the meaning of true friendship and you will never have to face another day alone.

Grace and peace,

Deb Spaulding

Faith UMC - St. Charles, MO

www.songofdeborah.com

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Tuesday, September 02, 2008

Love in action

Today’s Reading: John 15:12-13 (NIV)

12 [Jesus said,] “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.

Good morning!

On my cell phone, I saved a priceless voice mail message from my soon-to-be two year old granddaughter Madison Marie. She called me over the weekend just to say hello! Her message sounded like this: “Hi’ya Ma Caw! Ma Caw! I wuv wu! Wuv wu! (giggle) Ma Caw! I wuv wu! Bye bye!” This grandmother had absolutely no difficulty understanding the message. Madison is a quite the girly girl! She has no trouble expressing herself, and if you watch her facial expressions, she will let you know exactly what she means. When Maddie wants something, everyone knows it! She is a busy bundle of light and life. Whenever I’m with my granddaughter, I see love in action.

My mother and I sat together on the sofa and watched as Hurricane Gustav barreled onto the Louisiana and Mississippi shores Monday morning. Cities had been evacuated; volunteers spent countless hours last week helping folks leave and find a safe place to stay while the storm passed through. Medical professionals and service personnel stayed behind to help with clean up efforts and care for those who could not leave due of extreme illness and infirmity. Work will resume as soon as it is safe for residents to return, and people from all over the United States will reach out and lend a helping hand. People will place their lives on the line to help a neighbor in need. This is love in action.

How do we learn to love each other? There is no greater love than the love of Jesus Christ. He came to demonstrate the Father’s love for all, and did so in the most unusual way. He put others first, even when it cost Him his earthly life. Christ’s perfect love is a love unlike any other you will experience this side of heaven. Perfect love dispels fear; it hopes and endures and never, ever fails. Once you’ve experienced the amazing love of Jesus Christ, you cannot help but want to share His love with the world around you.

We begin to see Christ-like love blossom in the life of a little child, just like our sweet Maddie. She may not be able to say the name Jesus just yet, but He knows and loves her and she hears His voice. Jesus will be there to guide her every step as she grows and learns and becomes all that He has created her to be. It is that same love that compels folks to reach out, love unconditionally, and help our neighbors in need. We are the body of Christ and this is love in action.

Grace and peace,

Deb Spaulding

Faith UMC - St. Charles, MO

www.songofdeborah.com

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Monday, September 01, 2008

Complete joy!

Today’s Reading: John 15:10-11 (NIV)

10 [Jesus said,] “If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father’s commands and remain in His love. 11 I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.

Good morning!

Have you ever experienced complete joy? I remember walking down the aisle, hand-in-hand with my husband after our wedding. That, for me, was a moment of complete joy. I’d say the birth of our children were definitely up there in the complete joy category. I just wish I hadn’t been so tired after giving birth! Watching my grandchildren come into the world was truly a moment of complete joy for me, and it was so much easier than the first time around! Yet, there is one joy-filled moment that shines brighter than all the rest – the day I gave my heart to Jesus.

I was thirteen, hanging out at the church, waiting for my mother to finish up in a meeting. I had wandered into the sanctuary where I found myself alone with God. The sanctuary was dark, except for one light shining behind the cross of Christ. I went to the altar, got down on my knees, and prayed. Something happened. There was no earthquake, no roof collapse, and no one to witness the shift occurring in my heart. Yet, I know, without a doubt, that the Father heard and answered my prayer. I knew the Lord Jesus Christ died to take away my sin, and in that holy moment, I was completely forgiven, redeemed by Christ’s blood, and loved. Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to me that day, and it was definitely a time of complete joy. Was the experience something like a strange warming of the heart, as John Wesley described in his Aldersgate experience? Did the mountains move, volcanic eruptions occur, or tidal waves rise high in the ocean? I don’t recall any significant weather changes outside; but I do recall the faint brushing of angels’ wings as they danced before the Father’s throne in praise.

I wish I could say that since that day in the sanctuary, my life has been perfectly joyful, with no problems, no frustrations, and no sin to distract me! That, my friends, would be a lie. It is easy to lose that childlike joy, joy, joy, down in your heart, when you choose to turn and disobey God, not remaining under the umbrella of His love. I’m sure I am the only person on the planet who has ever disobeyed God, questioned matters of salvation and faith, after having received it. The miracle of complete joy was not so much what happened that day in the sanctuary, but in the moments that followed, when I turned, kicked up my heels, and ran in the opposite direction. God let me go, but He never let go, and that is the amazing, miraculous beauty of complete joy.

Jesus said that when we choose to obey His Word and remain within the shelter of His love, His joy will become our joy, and our joy will be complete. If you find yourself wandering far and away from Jesus, I urge you to turn around now. Come back home where you belong. As long as you have breath in your body, it is not too late to begin again. Jesus is waiting, and His joy can be your joy today.

Grace and peace,

Deb Spaulding

Faith UMC - St. Charles, MO

www.songofdeborah.com

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Sunday, August 31, 2008

The sweet return on an investment of a lifetime!

Today’s Reading: John 15:8-9 (NIV)

8 [Jesus said,] “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples. 9 As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love.

Good morning!

I remember making weekly visits to the nearby savings and loan with my mother and sister. We would go during the daytime, when the inside lobby was open. My sister and I each had our own savings account deposit booklet. The cashier’s desk was very tall; so tall that they provided a staircase just for wee ones to climb up to see the teller waiting patiently behind the counter. I would take my savings account booklet and the few coins I had saved from my allowance, and climb those steps to meet the woman smiling at me from behind the counter. She would take my money, place a red ink stamp in my savings booklet, and hand me a brightly colored lollipop in return! The teller would thank me for making an investment in the future, and then she would hand me my favorite grape lollipop! The lollipops from the bank were the best lollipops in the world! They would leave a sticky, sugary coating on my fingertips and lips. I liked our bank teller, and knew I could expect to see her radiant smile each week and receive a sweet return for each investment made. I continued to save my pennies with the savings and loan, even when I no longer needed to climb up the steps to see the teller. The money that I saved as a child helped pay for my wedding eighteen years later. That investment made over many years had a significant impact upon my future. I appreciated the gift all the more, understanding that it was the journey that made the destination priceless.

Jesus knew His earthly destination before the world could comprehend it. He willingly came for one purpose alone - to become a holy and perfect sacrifice for an unholy and imperfect world. Christ took on the very sins of humanity; all of them, to bridge the eternal chasm between the Father and His lost children. Jesus could have chosen to skip through thirty-three long years, investing his earthly time with the ones He came to save. Christ chose to demonstrate the gift of relationship, by investing His heart all of us. He is not just our final destination, but Jesus is the one who journeys with you and me every single day. He is our pathway toward holiness. Can you imagine what the world might be like without the lifeline of our Lord to guide and direct along the way?

Jesus said, “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love.” This is where the real journey begins. As we live each day in intimate relationship with Jesus Christ, we learn how to love others the way He loves each of us. And when we invest ourselves relationally into the hearts of others, we begin to share Christ’s love with the world. Climb the steps and invest your life with the eternal. Give your heart, your mind, your all to the Lord Jesus Christ. The sweet return in relationship that you receive today cannot compare to the glory you will share with Christ at the final destination.

Grace and peace,

Deb Spaulding

Faith UMC - St. Charles, MO

www.songofdeborah.com

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